Showing posts with label October 2025. Show all posts
Showing posts with label October 2025. Show all posts

OCTOBER BRANCH MEETING

Happy Hour Fundraiser at House of Bread Farmhouse!


The October Branch Meeting will be our Happy Hour Fundraiser at House of Bread Farmhouse. We are going into the evening with an initial fundraising goal of $500 (equivalent to one SLOHS Scholarship) AND a stretch goal of $1400 (equivalent to one 2026 Tech Trek Scholarship). Let's do ALL we can to meet and surpass these goals!!

Ways you can help:

Show up at our fundraiser! Invite your friends!

When: Friday, October 17, 4-6 PM

Where: House of Bread Farmhouse
1025 Farmhouse Ln #1F, San Luis Obispo
(off Broad St., opposite the airport)

Enjoy an evening out, mix and mingle with old and new friends, and hear about the camp experiences of some of our 2025 Tech Trekkers!

Buy a glass of beer, wine, or hard kombucha from an AAUW SLO Branch Guest Bartender!! Enjoy a tasty meal or treat!! Take home some baked goods or pre-packaged mixes!!

Remember 25% of ALL profits go to the American Association of University Women (AAUW) SLO Branch for our Cal Poly, SLO High School, and Tech Trek Scholarships!

We will have door prizes, too: a free bread-baking class at House of Bread (donated by Owner Sheila McCann - a $70 value) AND 2 gift-bag prizes with wine (donated by AAUW members) and other goodies from the House of Bread!!

Jars will be available to collect your Tips for Scholarships!

Watch for your EVITE! Transportation can be provided.
Donate directly to our branch!

-If you cannot attend, please consider making a donation — in any amount — to AAUW SLO Branch. Donations can be sent to DD Patrick, Finance Officer, AAUW SLO Branch.

President's Message - October 2025

We are off to a good start! Our September kick-off branch meeting was a success, with an enthusiastic audience and inspiring reports from our Tech Trekkers. We are welcoming two new members, Cheryl Vines and Anne Ciesielski (daughter of member Barbara Ciesielski), who joined after attending the kick-off. And, our branch meetings for the rest of 2025 are ALL in-person events: our Happy Hour Fundraiser at House of Bread on Friday, October 17 from 4-6pm, our presentation on immigration advocacy at the Unitarian Universalists San Luis Obispo Social Hall on Saturday, November 8 from 11:00 am to 12:30 pm, and our Holiday Celebration and Care and Comfort Gift Bags Assembly at DD's house on Saturday, December 6 at 10 am. The board and I hope these in-person events provide all our members some excellent opportunities to gather and connect. I hope to see you at all of these events!

Among the many things on my mind lately is the book, A Two-Spirit Journey: The Autobiography of a Lesbian Ojibwa-Cree Elder by Ma-Nee Chacaby that I'm reading for our Brown Bag 'n' Books group. Her story and its themes dovetail with various October observances: Indigenous Peoples' Day (second Monday in October), World Mental Health Day (October 10), Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and LGBTQ+ History Month. In the book, Ma-Nee describes her harrowing, yet inspiring, journey of healing from sexual and physical abuse, alcohol addiction, and harassment and discrimination as a queer, two-spirit indigenous woman. While I hope you might be able to join our book group discussion on October 14 (see more info in this newsletter), you can also learn more about Ma-Nee in this interview she did for the Toronto Public Library.

A recent opinion piece in the New York Times by Jessica Grouse on "American Women Are Leaving the Workforce. Why?" also picks up on themes related to this month and next when we mark the Equal Pay Days for Latina Women (October 8), Disabled Women (October 23), and Native Women (November 18). Grouse writes, "The gender wage gap is widening, notes the economist Kathryn Ann Edwards, and, she said, "There is no racial group or educational class within the working population in which women outearn men.". Grouse goes on to say, "When women lose their jobs, they, their families and the broader economy suffer." While AAUW's vision of Equity for All may seem elusive in these challenging times, we can employ the strategy of educating ourselves first, educating others second, and calling for action from our legislators third as one way to keep moving towards that vision.

With that in mind, please do what you can to educate yourself around Proposition 50 and remember to vote! Perhaps we'll even see you at our Adopt-A-Poll precinct at the Unitarian Universalists San Luis Obispo Social Hall on Election Day, Tuesday, November 4. It may be a convenient place to drop off your mail-in ballot!

Finally, as we close Hispanic Heritage Month (September 15 to October 15) with its theme of Collective Heritage: Honoring the Past, Inspiring the Future, I leave you with these words from The Honorable Sonia Sotomayor, Associate Justice, Supreme Court of the United States:

[E]xperience has taught me that you cannot value dreams according to the odds of their coming true. Their real value is in stirring within us the will to aspire. That will, wherever it finally leads, does at least move you forward. And after a time you may recognize that the proper measure of success is not how much you've closed the distance to some far-off goal but the quality of what you've done today.

Debra Valencia-Laver
President, AAUW SLO Branch

November Meeting - Save the Date

Mark your calendars for a special opportunity to hear information about SLO County immigration — what's being done and volunteer opportunities. Invite your friends and others. Watch for your Evite.

TITLE: SLO County Immigrant Advocacy: Support Services and Volunteer Opportunities

Explore with our presenters the assistance and support available for local immigrants, documented and undocumented, who face personal and legal challenges during these unprecedented times and discover the opportunities to volunteer and serve as allies.

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 8, 11:00 am - 12:30 pm

WHERE: Social Hall, Unitarian Universalists San Luis Obispo, 2201 Lawton Ave. Free parking is available in the UUSLO parking lot, across the street from Meadow Park.

PRESENTERS:

Michelle Fries, Director of Grants and Programs, The Community Foundation San Luis Obispo County – holder of the SLO County UndocuSupport Fund

Jan Meslin, Member, UUSLO Immigrant Advocacy Team and Volunteer, 805 SLO Rapid Response Network

Chelsea Ruiz, Program Manager of SLO County UndocuSupport, will also be present to answer questions.

Items for donation for immigrant families can be placed in the box in the UUSLO Social Hall, hosted by the UUSLO Anti-Oppression Community.

Requested Food Items                                    Requested Baby Items
These items go to Mujeres de AccĂ­on             These items will be distributed .
for distribution.                                               in Santa Maria.
o Evaporated Milk                                          o Strollers
o Chicken Bouillon                                         o Car Seats
o Sugar                                                            o Gender Neutral Baby Clothes
o Apple Juice                                                  o Formula
o White Rice (uncooked)                                o Changing Pads
o Pinto Beans (uncooked)                               o Pacifiers
o Corn Tortillas                                               o Cribs
o Pasta                                                             o Diapers                          
o Pancake Mix                                                o Baby Wipes
o Instant Coffee                                               o Bottles
o Gallon Water                                                o Wash Cloths
o Peanut Butter                                                o Wash / Shampoo  
o Strawberry Jam                                                  
o Canola Oil

AAUW Public Policy: Anti-LGBTQ+ Supreme Court Decision Will Likely Impact K-12 Education in California (Updates After Supreme Court Ruling in June 2025)

Anti-LGBTQ+ Supreme Court Decision Will Likely Impact K-12 Education in California (Updates After Supreme Court Ruling in June 2025)

By Missy Maceyko, Co-chair AAUW California Public Policy Committee

This past June, during LGBTQ+ pride month, a decision was issued in Mahmoud v. Taylor, a case involving the LGBTQ+ community that was heard by the Supreme Court of the United States during the 2024-2025 term. The outcome of this case may have an impact on the important legislative and on-the-ground work that AAUW California has been doing (via the School Board Project (SBP)) to protect historically accurate, diverse, and inclusive curricula in K-12 education and schools given the likely increase in legal opt-out requests by some parents.

The Mahmoud case began in 2022, when the Montgomery County Public School (MCPS) Board, in Maryland, updated their curriculum with more diverse and inclusive storybooks, working with childhood development experts to select books across the curriculum that would have common childhood themes but a wider array of characters, to make sure all students could see themselves in some of the texts. This included adding a handful of story books with LGBTQ+ characters.

In response to the addition of the LGBTQ+ story books, a coalition of Muslim, Roman Catholic, and Ukrainian Orthodox parents asked for an opt-out provision for any storybooks that included a normative portrayal of LGBTQ+ families, such as Pride Puppy, a rhyming alphabet book that tells the story of a family having a fun day together at a LGBTQ+ pride event, and Uncle Bobby’s Wedding, a classic children’s book about how to address the anxiety that children feel when their family grows and changes, in this case through marriage.

While the MCPS school board initially tried to accommodate opt-out requests that arose from parents, the school board received such an influx of requests that course administration became unmanageable. Opt-out policies are expensive, costly for students, schools, and taxpayers. This means that mass opt-outs can put further stress on already stressed logistical systems within financially burdened school districts.

On top of the logistical and actual costs and administrative struggles created by the mass opt-out requests, the MCPS school board in this case also noted that the influx of requests fundamentally “undermined the schools’ educational obligations toward inclusion, equity, and respect.Opt-outs can hurt kids whose lives and families are mirrored in the books, in this case explicitly positioning LGBTQ+ families’ experiences as something potentially problematic and harmful to others. It also teaches young people that they can opt out of teachings that encourage being decent to all humans, even those who do not look, think, act, or love in the way that their families do. Lack of access to and understanding of diverse experiences and viewpoints and the inability to engage meaningfully with widespread inclusivity also leaves the opted-out students themselves less well-equipped to move forward to function in a diverse world, a pluralistic democracy, and a global workforce.

After the first year of implementation, MCPS school board ended the opt-out request option.

In response, the parents in the Mahmoud case filed a lawsuit, arguing that requiring their children to engage with story books like Pride Puppy and Uncle Bobby’s Wedding, whether independently or via neutral reading lessons created around them, would be a violation of their religious beliefs. Specifically, these parents claimed that lack of an opt-out provision, providing them with the ability to opt their children out of these lessons, was a violation of their First Amendment rights to freely exercise their religion, impeding their ability to instruct their children on faith-based issues related to gender and sexuality and to control when and how these issues are introduced.

Based on a 2008 case in Massachusetts, there was precedent for ruling against these kinds of opt outs because participation in public school instruction that simply exposes a child to ideas that conflict with the religious beliefs of their parents, “does not inhibit the parent from instructing the child differently.” However, on June 27, 2025, the majority of the Supreme Court broke with this precedent, deciding the case in favor of these parents’ and upholding their constitutional right to make these opt-out requests on religious grounds. The majority decision in the case called parents’ inability to opt their children out of story books like Pride Puppy and Uncle Bobby’s Wedding a “substantial interference” with the religious development of their children as the books and instruction around them were deemed “coercive.”

As such, the ruling gives a great deal of latitude to parents who want to claim a religious exemption from existing public-school curricula. This means that we will likely see not only an uptick in opt-out requests for LGBTQ+ material on religious grounds throughout the country, but also an uptick in requests for opt-outs on other topics that parents mark as potentially problematic. Echoing some of these concerns, Justice Sonia Sotomayor and Justice Elana Kagan gave voice to this issue during oral arguments as well as in their dissent in the case, noting the potentially broad scope of the parents’ position. Historically, Sotomayor and Kagen note, there have also been objections to “biographical material about women who have been recognized for achievement outside their home,” as well as books featuring divorce, interfaith marriage, and immodest dress.

Because this was a federal decision, the ruling in Mahmoud will likely have an impact on public school curricula and administration in California, as well.

Parents in California already have the ability to opt their children out of some material, perhaps most notably around comprehensive sexual health education. However, these opt-out provisions are limited in scope. As the protection and expansion of historically accurate, diverse, and inclusive curricula in K-12 education in California has been an important focus for both AAUW CA’s School Board Project and our legislative priorities, we need to watch how the decision in Mahmoud may spark expanded opt-out requests on religious grounds. While protections for inclusive curricula remain in place in California, the outcome in favor of the parents in this case is likely to create a wave of costly social and legal challenges, including a call for more expansive opt-out policies, which will have an impact on how we continue to engage in meaningful work around this priority area in the future. A possible outcome of this is that many districts will pull back on their DEI materials, setting up a potential collision course with existing CA laws.

PUBLIC POLICY: GET OUT THE VOTE

Investing in Our Democratic Future: Non-Partisan Voter Education Around Proposition 50 in California
By Sue Miller, AAUW CA Public Policy Committee Member

We are currently seeing and experiencing creeping authoritarian efforts to undermine fair representation, trusted information, and democratic norms in our country. This unprecedented condition, paired with overwhelming federal encroachment, presents a significant threat to many of the things that we care about, including AAUW’s mission of advancing equity for women and girls: although California continues to maintain strong protections for women and girls, marginalized peoples, free speech, accurate history, sound science, and democratic norms, we are still subject to the laws, rules, and enforcement actions of the federal government. As such, as part of this year’s GOTV campaign, AAUW California will be providing information-centered messages on the potential benefits of Proposition 50 for all Californians.

The approval of Proposition 50 by California voters in November 2025 will approve redistricting efforts in California for the next election cycles (until maps are redrawn after the next census in 2030). With the passage of Proposition 50, we will experience a short-term loss of state democratic and people-centered control of an important aspect of democracy: redistricting. This effort will also seemingly have partisan benefits.

However, a short term loss of people-centered redistricting can also be seen as an investment in a democratic future in the long term, one in which we can have more, not less, of the will of the people recognized - all of the people, regardless of who they are. Furthermore, partisanship may be seen as a reductive label when the choice has become one of supporting authoritarianism or preserving functional democracy.

Redistricting should be in the hands of the people. Gender equity should be a consistent priority so that the dreams of a pluralistic democracy are one step closer to being realized. None of this is possible if our state is operating in a federal system in which democracy is no longer functional, listing instead toward an authoritarian system that puts troops in our streets, that censors our speech, that erases historical facts, that does not rely on sound science in decision-making, that directly endangers the wellbeing of women and girls, and that dehumanizes important and valued members of our communities.

Our goal in this campaign is to provide reliable information as a trusted resource to voters in California, and the wider public, about the potential ramifications and potential benefits of Proposition 50’s passage and dispel misinformation about partisanship and redistricting in this political moment. We will also encourage and assist voters to go to the polls for this special election to vote as individuals on whether the proposed redistricting should be approved. Providing this encouragement to get out and vote and information about Proposition 50, including about potential benefits, is acting in alignment with our mission and our nonpartisan commitments, as we are advancing a pro-democracy message: we seek to support any and all efforts to preserve and advance democracy and our public policy priorities in the face of a growing authoritarian threat.

Let’s all join in working together to advance our public policy priorities in moving California forward.

October BBNB Reading Group

Greetings, all AAUW readers,

You are invited to attend the October 14, 2025, meeting of our reading group. We gather at 12:30 PM on the second Tuesday of the month, with our brown bag lunches or snacks and beverage.

Meetings are held in the annex library at Laguna Lake Mobile Estates, 1801 Prefumo Canyon Road in San Luis Obispo.

The October selection is A Two-Spirit Journey: The Autobiography of a Lesbian Ojibwa-Cree Elder, by Ma-Nee Chacaby, author, with Mary Louisa Plummer. Published in 2016, the book is number 18 in a 21-book series Critical Studies in Native History. It is the winner of Canada Reads 2025.

From her early, often harrowing memories of life and abuse in a remote Ojibwa community, Ma-Nee Chacaby's extraordinary story is one of enduring and ultimately overcoming the social and economic legacies of colonialism.

As a child, Chacaby learned spiritual and cultural traditions from her Cree grandmother and trapping, hunting, and bush survival skills from her Ojibwa stepfather. She also suffered physical and sexual violence, and in her teen years became an alcoholic herself. At twenty, Chacaby took her children and, fleeing an abusive marriage, moved to Thunder Bay. Despite the abuse, racism, and indifference she often found there, Chacaby marshalled the strength and supports to help herself and others.

Over the following decades, she achieved sobriety, trained and worked as an alcoholism counsellor, raised her children and fostered many others, learned to live with visual impairment, and came out as a lesbian. In 2013, Chacaby led the first gay pride parade in Thunder Bay.

Ma-Nee Chacaby has emerged from hardship grounded in faith, compassion, and humour. Her memoir provides unprecedented insights into the challenges still faced by many Indigenous people.

The reviewer is Laurie Schneemann. See you all on October 14! 

Nancy Page, Group Coordinator

October Dining Out

Our first Dine Out Night at Rosa's was attended by eight of us. The food was as delicious as usual, but it was a little noisy. It was difficult to keep conversation going except for those sitting close to you. They put us in the banquet room with quite a few large parties, and one of these groups was celebrating a birthday and enjoying themselves quite loudly. Next time we will plan on sitting in the main dining area.

Next month, our Dine Out Night will be combined with the Branch's Fund Raiser at the House of Bread on Friday, October 17th, from 4 pm-6 pm. I hope all members of our group will plan to have their dinner at the House of Bread on Broad St. There you can sit with other AAUW members and do plan to bring your friends with you. We raised a lot of money from last year's fundraiser, and I hope we do the same at this event.

Our next regular Dine Out Night is scheduled for November 19th, where our hosts will be Diana Kaiser and Randy Murray. Information on this dinner will be in our November newsletter. Do plan to join us.

Esther Pudlo
Dine Out Coordinator

Our Generous Bridge Group Donors

For many years, our branch has sponsored a Round Robin Bridge group. Teams rotate through a nine-month schedule, playing a different partnership every month. Fran Johnson started this group as a fun money raiser for Cuesta Re-Entry Scholarships, and Bette Kulp and Sue Fong have carried the torch. This year, we have ten teams. some couples and some single players teaming up with others. A second group, which now overlaps with Round Robin membership, is a Friday group of eight women that meets once a month.

We now request that players contribute to one or more of our local scholarships of their choice. This year, the two groups combined have donated more than $2,000, spread across our High School and Cuesta Re-Entry Scholarships, Tech Trek, and the Lynn S. Janeway Memorial Scholarship at Cal Poly. The amount of donations is up to each individual or couple. Only three of the total group of 23 players are AAUW SLO Branch members. We are extremely grateful to all of these participants for recognizing the value of our scholarship programs.

Sue Fong and Bette Kulp

October Birthdays

 

Randall Murray: October 6th

Michelle Patrick: October 5th

Nancy Pinkel: October 31st